The Mother of All Memories

  • By Her Hand

    We saved precious little of my mother’s writing. To the best of my knowledge, neither notes nor letters nor even a grocery list remains. We have my father’s correspondence to… Read more

  • Seeing Things and Hearing Things

    When I was about eight years old I had a very high fever that caused hallucinations through the night. I remember lying in my bed in the room shared with… Read more

  • Alive But Not Living

    For a recent Cognitive Psychology course at Smith College I assigned a reading by Psychologist Daniel Levitin describing a case study from his own life— a former colleague who began… Read more

  • The Seven-Year Glitch

    The day after my mother’s funeral I awoke to a gigantic hole in the sky.  Relief should have emerged with the dawn—at least according to the prediction of a friend’s… Read more

  • Dreams of My Mother

    I was the family outlier, a daydreamer and a romantic, the one with the thinnest skin whose tendency to upset easily was tested heartily and often. I found solace in… Read more

  • Colorless Green Ideas

    I’ve often wondered if the beginning of human life resembles a scene from the stop-motion animated classic, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. As Santa’s reindeer-driven sleigh soars over rooftops on Christmas… Read more

  • Little Triggers

    In May 2015, along with three million other viewers, I watched the series finale of Mad Men. The show’s director delivered fans a rare happy ending; a montage of future… Read more

  • O Brightening Glance

    One lesson I’ve learned from writing this blog is that when life gives you lemonade, enjoy it while it’s fresh. Cleaning out my father’s basement recently I found a long-lost… Read more